The BLooDY nurse ASk us:"cOme here for what?"
ME:"To give birth lah.. den"
Dear dear say i Giv ppl attitude.. pls lah.. when u're in pain.. U wil do anything out of yr mind k..!
13 july 07 10.25pm
the nurse bring us to the delivery suite(only husband can acc u).. Gotta get change.. i wonder why must i take off my bra man.. delivery got anythin to do with yr top meh??Lie on the bed watch tv.. meanwhile my midwife detact the detactor on my stomach( it was use to track bb heart beat & contraction frequency)
13 july 07 11.30pm
OK.. the nurse check my dialation.. how to check? They insert 2 finger into yr Vagina.. somehow press deep inside to estimate!! It's Freaking pain k!! okie.. i've dialated to 3cm (need to dilate to 10cm for delivery) they will hav to artificial rupture my membranes because it doesn't rupture itself.. how? The doc insert her finger into e vagina meanwhile uses a thin long sharp stick(i duno wat it's call)& push it in.. a gush of warm fluid flows out.. it's not painful..
14 july 07 12.30am
The contraction beame stronger!! It's DaMN PaINFUL CaN!! But i dun want epidural.. (it's so expensive & doesn't help much) so i choose for the inhalation of gas(u wil feel giddy & wil minimise e pain as u're half consious.BUT not eveyone can feel the effect. ) ok another doc came to check my dilation.. it's ard 5 cm now.. The pain was bearable bUt freaking pain lah.. dear dear help me to hold the gas mask.. i inhale lik dunno wat lah..
14 july 07 1.00am
My midwife came in and add Oxytocin to my drip.. (It was use to speed up e contraction.. the dilation wil then speed up also) wow kaO.. I FEEL lik bangin my head to the wall k.. i gripped on to dear dear hand.. i wanna bite his hand but i stop.. so funni..hhaaha..
14 july 07 2.30am
I was in great pain noW!!! NO words can describe how pain it was lah!!!! MY mid wife check my dilation.. ard 7 cm now. I've not pass urine since then.. they hav to insert a catheter(a narrow tube) to e bladder to keep it empty.. it's freakin painful k.. I swear!!!
14 july 07 3.15 am
Check my dialation again.. it's 10cm.. !!! CAN PUSH!! everything wil be alrite i tot!! My gynae is there also.. okie.. i keep hearing them say..
PUSH..... PusH... as if u're PUSHING a BOWEL!!!
WE CAN SEE BB HEAD.... PUSH!!!!
After several push.. bb stil dun wan to come out can.. i requested to use Vacuum extraction(to gently pull bb out of birth canal) but moii gynae dun wan.. ask me TRY aGaiN!! It's freaking PAINFUL & i've no strength already..!!! 3 nurses den came to help by pressing moii stomach while i push..
PUSH.....BB heaD is THERE....
okie... I reali Use up all my energy & keep pushing.. i scream lik hell.. dun laugh k.. it's reali bloody painful can.. dear dear say while i push bowels also came out.. *Faint* it's so disgusting lah.. blood everywhere.. so dirty!!! I felt so UGLY lah!!
14 july 07 3.54am
PusH.... BB valerie Arrived!!! * Relieve* doctor sHOW moii bb to me.. it's so amazing ya!! Stil not finish k.. u'll hav to push out the plancenta.. by rite.. u shouldn't feel much pain.. BUT U NOE.. i'm screamin lik hell k!! my gynae den shouted hydrostatic reduction... i've to go to the operating theater.. meanwhile i was shivering lik hell!!! Scare the shit out of my dear dear lah.. haha.. he so worry... so they push me to the OT.. (nonsense thing.. they ask me to climb to e bed beside me.. i was in pain k DOCs & Nurses!!!)
14 july 07 6.30am
OpeN my eyes.. Wheww.. everything was fine.. i'm stil at the OT..no pain at all.. heng...!!! They push me out of OT.. relieve tat i saw dear dear... :) everyone was there... they say bb look lik me... BUT Now bb look exactly lik her DAddi lah..haha..
14 july 07 8.00am
Dear dear stay with me.. feel abit of discomfort on my below!! They hav inserted the catheter AgAIN!!!! LAter in e noon.. i gotta hold my breath when they remove it.. its painful kkkk!!! doc say.. i've to go into OT to "put back" my womb as it stick onto e plancenta & came out 2gether!!! IMAGINE!!! dear dear say.. my gynae put his whole hand into my vagina to push my womb in before pushing me to the OT!! whole hand u noe??? doc say must be fast if not my womb wil hav to be remove.. tat means.. i'll not hav menses.. no sex.. NO MORE BB.. scare the shit out of me can!!!!
EVERYTHING ALRITE NOW!!!!!
15 july 07 1.00pm
DISCHARGE!!!!!!! WeeeeEeEE..........
* Kiss ur mUmmy & say u love her... it's not an easy thing to bring u to this world ok* :)